Monday, 4 May 2009

Heartbroken.

Heya Guys,

I just wanted to let you know I will be taking a blogging break for a little bit. My long term boyfriend and I broke up today, mutually. I cannot stop crying and to be honest we are just both devastated that it happened. I have always firmly believed that if you love something or someone you can get over the hills and see a brighter side. Brad and I feel we will be better as friends and as painful as it is to type I am at peace with that.

It is hard having to accept that I have to 'get over' someone I am still in love with. Thank you for all your support, your're amazing! I better get back to my tissues.

'See' you soon x.

20 comments:

Shannon said...

Girl, hang in there!

God has other plans for you and you're still so young - Mr. Right is out there! I know how devastating this can be and how hard it can feel, but time will heal wounds... And who knows, maybe at a later date ya'll will resolve whatever the problems are and make things work. :) *Hugs*

Brittney Galloway said...

I'm so sorry Rebecca, I know how hard that can be. Remember that God is in control and that He wants to bless you in every way possible!

Jenna said...

I'm praying for you! But if he's the one with you'll both be running into each other's arms sooner rather than later. And even if he's not the one just imagine when you do meet Mr.Right! Think about the butterflies you'll get!

Abigail Hutchinson said...

Oh girl! I am so sorry! Hang in there! I will be praying for you to have peace. You are young and have so much ahead of you! I can't wait to see what God has in store for you next! Good luck in school! Do you have finals coming up?
~Abigail

I do what I want! said...

I know what you are going through. I have been through the same exact thing twice once with a relationship of 4 years and once with a one year relationship. If you need anyone to talk to about it you know where to find me!
Just know that it is okay to cry. It is okay to be sad. And it is okay to consume undesirable amounts of ice cream and chocolate. In the end everything will be okay and if it's not okay it isn't the end.
I'm still not over my last love...I don't think I ever will be...a small piece of your heart will always hang on to them. With time you will learn to love again but right now you just need to focus on you and making yourself happy!
Best wishes!
April

Brittany said...

Becca, I am so sorry! I know it feels like it is the end of the world, but it will get better! Love ya!

Librarian or Teacher said...

I'm so so sorry Rebecca. I know what you're going through, even when it's a mutual breakup it is so much pain. You're in my prayers, because the pain of a heartbreak is so hard.

Alex(andra) said...

Oh, Becca, I'm sorry... Just keep truckin. And remember that there is someone out there for you, and when you find him (or refind...) it'll be worth all of the pain and tissues now. *hugs* Definitely in my thoughts and prayers.

Colette said...

Becca you know I love your posts but this one is not fun to read.

I am so, so sorry. I won't patronise you with promises for what the future holds just sending love and hugs.

Samantha said...

Oh Becca, Keep your chin up love, I know it's tough. If you ever need a talk you give me a shout. Woman to woman, UKer to UKer, Blonde to Blonde.
Sending you HUGS.

Just Caz said...

I'm really sorry.
Its very hard to stop loving someone that you care about so much.
I am one of those people who believes that love doesn't ever go away.
It just evolves and changes, and makes you better people.
I hope you feel better soon.

Patrice said...

I'm so sorry to hear this!! I hate break ups... I know how you feel! Hang in there! I'm here for moral support :)

S. said...

Becca,
Hey! I will be praying for you during this time. It is never easy to go through a break-up especially when you still love and care for the other person.

Also, it's okay to cry and to be angry and to want to talk to him like you used to...and no one will be able to give you the day or the moment when you will "get over it"....and that's okay also...

I pray that there will be a peace and healing that comes during quickly. As others have mentioned, there may be better plans in the future that you cannot see at this moment...hold onto that....

Be Blessed!
S.

♥April♥ said...

Awww Rebecca I am so sorry. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Everything will work out. Thinking of you. April

Suki said...

I'm sorry for you.
Keep your chin up, girl! There will be better days.

You are in my prayers! I know how hard it is.

Brittne said...

Oh my gosh how terrible!! I'm so sorry and I will be praying for you!

student101 said...

im so sorry :( i knw how you feel all to well.
take care of urself love,
xxx

Lauren said...

I'm so sorry. I know there isn't much that will make you feel better better right now but just keep looking forward cause eventually things start to be okay again.

Candy Hart said...

I am real sorry about your break up. I highly recommend mint chocolate chip ice cream and chocolate syrup - that always makes me feel better :)

Lauren said...

Oh I have tried everything, any product that is recommended I try it. Unfortunately it either doesn't work or it just makes my hair all icky!

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